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(Some Guy)   Northern California Farkers: Fellow farker needs help in finding his kid brother. LGN, DIT   (maps.google.com) divider line 245
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2005-05-11 08:04:35 PM
Directory assistence turned up zilch. Fatlilbug I wasn't trying to bust your chops, I meant my comment as a joke , sorry about that, and PermanentThursday feel free to use the info in my "boobies" to spread the word to the AFI forum.

Thanks, all of you.
 
2005-05-11 08:06:09 PM
Anybody know how to convert a BMP pic to JPG? If it requires specialized tools, I'm screwed, if you have the tools, I can mail it...
 
2005-05-11 08:06:21 PM
You may want to try Phoenix at Tattoo Heaven. Anyone with a tat is known by this guy.

http://www.tattooheaven.com/TatAppt.html

Tell him Gus referred you
 
2005-05-11 08:06:29 PM
Origin,

I know I came up dry in the TF-only thread, but I'm gonna ask my 23-year-old stepson and his girlfriend if they know your brother, or knows someone that knows him. He's not punk or bodymod, but he has...eclectic friends. They might have run into each other or something...
 
2005-05-11 08:07:47 PM
I was just in Ukiah last Saturday - didn't see him.
 
2005-05-11 08:08:27 PM
Origin.. send me the pic.. I will convert and host it for ya.. e-mail is in the profile
 
2005-05-11 08:08:35 PM
Origin: Paint will let you save in various formats.

Open with Paint

File -> Save As -> Make sure it's changed to .jpg
 
2005-05-11 08:08:42 PM
Well, Paint in WinXP will convert from BMP to JPG (save as...)
 
2005-05-11 08:08:49 PM
Origin_of_the_Feces:

Anybody know how to convert a BMP pic to JPG? If it requires specialized tools, I'm screwed, if you have the tools, I can mail it...

I can do that. E-mail in profile. I can put the pic up too, if'n you want.
 
2005-05-11 08:10:19 PM
The tax stuff that arrived here was out of date, it had his info from his first stay with Ukiah, this is his second, and I know he didn't go back to the old apartment or address.

By straight, I mean straight. He's not homophobic, but he is pretty certain where his interests lie, and has never mentioned to me that he might be interested in anything different. Of course, I could be wrong, but even if I am, that's okay with me. The important thing is that I find him. Quite frankly, I've never cared about anybody's sexuality (except my own) so spread the word where ever you think it'll help.

as far as I know, he prefers the nightlife, but he may have a day job.
 
2005-05-11 08:10:25 PM
Origin_of_the_Feces:

Anybody know how to convert a BMP pic to JPG? If it requires specialized tools, I'm screwed, if you have the tools, I can mail it...

Run pbrush.exe and save it as a jpeg.
 
2005-05-11 08:12:02 PM
ok, i'm not trying to troll or anything, but how do we know this is for real? sorry to be a pessimist, but how do we know that there's really a family emergency? maybe the guy owes origin some money or something.

i'm sure i'll get flamed for this, but i'm really not trying to troll.
 
2005-05-11 08:12:42 PM
anyone who uses MS Paint is a specialized tool.

/pwned?
 
2005-05-11 08:12:43 PM
shiate if you aren't trying to troll, just don't post. Easy as that.
 
2005-05-11 08:12:49 PM
Orgin

If you need a place to host your photo for a while I have 2 gb of transfer available.
 
2005-05-11 08:13:52 PM
Origin_of_the_Feces:
You mentioned he was in the Army. Did he stay in contact with any of his buddies or was there anyone close. What unit was he with. Email me any relevant info, I may be able to help from that direction.
Zunigene
 
2005-05-11 08:14:06 PM
shiate:

ok, i'm not trying to troll or anything, but how do we know this is for real? sorry to be a pessimist, but how do we know that there's really a family emergency? maybe the guy owes origin some money or something.

i'm sure i'll get flamed for this, but i'm really not trying to troll.


Pretty obscure way to make contact with someone. Most likely explaination is the current one. Guy reaching out to his, virtual, community for help.

But he could be an ex-lover trying to track him down to kill him, but sometimes you got to go with your gut.
 
2005-05-11 08:15:38 PM
I found two punk/alternative rock bars in Ukiah he might frequent.

One is Club 7-11 (707)462-7111.

The other's called Demon Lounge, but I can't seem to find any contact info on that one. Directory assistance might help, if the place still exists.

The staff there might know him, or at least know of him.
 
2005-05-11 08:17:00 PM
Guys, I'm sorry I'm not keeping up, I'm severely out numbered. I have to step out for about 15 minutes to take my wife to her class. I'll be right back.
 
2005-05-11 08:17:06 PM
Ukiah? That's a ghost town, yo. I'd bet he took the A-Train straight to Ufia.
 
2005-05-11 08:19:44 PM
Good luck finding your brother.


/wonders why this was greenlighted and my friends missing daughter wasn't when I submitted it last year
 
2005-05-11 08:20:19 PM
Let me put it to you this way, shiate. This is a last resort for me. I am a rather private person by nature, and the news I have to give him is so bad, I will not share it here on Fark. There is a realistic possibility that it may end up on the net anyway, and yet, I am willing to take that risk to reach him.
 
2005-05-11 08:21:30 PM
shiate: but how do we know this is for real?

Because threads like this *never* hit Fark, without assistance from the sites owner.And he aint stupid.
 
2005-05-11 08:22:16 PM
HEEEEEEERRRRRSSS Frank

 
2005-05-11 08:23:03 PM
If he is in the santa rosa petaluma punk scene i will spread the word around for you, i'll let you know what i hear.
 
2005-05-11 08:23:47 PM
Guys.. Origin sent me Franks pic.. so that really is him.
 
2005-05-11 08:24:50 PM
Origin_of_the_Feces: Let me put it to you this way, shiate. This is a last resort for me.


Except of course for hiring a professional????

I have a friend in San Diego who works as a P.I., he's a retired cop. That's the kind of guy you need on the ground.

But like I said before, good luck.

I.M.
 
2005-05-11 08:27:01 PM
Immaculate_Misconception: Except of course for hiring a professional????

Second-to-last resort then
 
2005-05-11 08:33:13 PM
Break out the luminal!


/Half way across the river the scorpion stings the frog. Just as he is taking his last breath, the frog looks at the scorpion and asks "but why? Now we're both going to die." The scorpion replies, "because I'm a scorpion and that is my nature".
 
2005-05-11 08:33:19 PM
If he's in Ukiah he might travel down to Petaluma for punk shows at the Phoenix Theater.

http://www.thephoenixtheater.com/

Post on their message boards..
 
2005-05-11 08:34:28 PM
Suggestions.

Get on publicdata.com and see what's listed as far as his DL, recent traffic tickets, possible criminal stuff?

If you have vital personal info (SSN & D.O.B.) I can pull a credit bureau, it may have a recent address or employer, especially if he's applied for any credit, or rented an apartment lately.

I'm an attorney, and I also provide bail bond services for my clients, the two suggestions above are the best 2 ways I've found to begin a search for a skip. If you'd like furthur information email me, it's in my profile.

I.M.
 
2005-05-11 08:34:33 PM
I would check in Arcata. Straight up the 101, big stop for wandering youth.
 
2005-05-11 08:35:12 PM
I got family in Sonoma and they'll keep their eyes open. Of course Sonoma has become Marin-lite, so I doubt any punk worth a damn would be caught dead there. But maybe your brother traded AFI for a BMW SUV and a glass of merlot. Stranger things have happened.
 
2005-05-11 08:37:46 PM
Good Luck, buddy. Sorry I can't help you, jsut thought I'd say a little prayer for and your kin. Even though I'm atheist, but whatever...
 
2005-05-11 08:38:06 PM
Best of luck, Origin. I did a Zabasearch, too, and I don't see much more that I can do, but please let us know if we can help any other way.

shiate:

ok, i'm not trying to troll or anything, but how do we know this is for real? sorry to be a pessimist, but how do we know that there's really a family emergency? maybe the guy owes origin some money or something.

Not flaming, just asking a question: Why shiat on people who are being nice, especially if their nice-ness doesn't affect you, and the people offering help do it willingly? Seriously - just a question. Why introduce negativity into the thread?
 
2005-05-11 08:40:19 PM
My question was rhetorical, too. Please don't answer in this thread.
 
2005-05-11 08:41:24 PM
oops, looks like the Phoeniz message board is defunct. Still, contact the theater, they take in tons of kids as employees or hanger-ons.
 
2005-05-11 08:42:38 PM
Try ussearch.com, they've apparently got an address for a Frank Paige in Petaluma, CA. It seems to be a pay site though.
 
2005-05-11 08:50:14 PM
Try this site, anything is possible there.

Joking aside, good luck...it's frustrating having all this information at your fingertips and not being able to find one seemingly simple thing.
 
2005-05-11 08:50:44 PM
That picture above is Frank, but it's also about 3 years old, and lacking his facial piercings.
 
2005-05-11 08:52:14 PM
And thanks to Antjaw25 for converting and hosting, as well to all who offered, along with the rest of you.
 
2005-05-11 08:57:32 PM
Origin_of_the_Feces:

That picture above is Frank, but it's also about 3 years old, and lacking his facial piercings.

WHAT?!?! the Army frowns on facial piercings??!?! Damn Army.

In any case GL man.
 
2005-05-11 08:57:42 PM
Origin maybe you can describe some of the facial piercings and anything else so the Farker photoshoppers can fix up the pic to be more current.

Just a thought.

HEARTS

You talk to Phoenix? He should be strolling in anytime.
 
2005-05-11 09:01:15 PM
I head over to the Phoniex sometimes on thursdays... its a major punk hangout. I will head over there tommorrow and see what i see. Id callem, its a major hangout.
 
2005-05-11 09:04:38 PM
I emailed Phoenix earlier, Gus, in fact, we've swapped like 4 emails already. He says he hasn't seen Frank.
 
2005-05-11 09:06:30 PM
Gus, He had both his lobes stretched out wide enough to fit the tip of his pinky in, a Labtet with spike through his lower lip, a large spike through his septum, and a couple of barbells in his eyebrows.
 
2005-05-11 09:09:18 PM
He also declined to keep in touch with anybody involved in the Army.
 
2005-05-11 09:09:23 PM
Did he go to Troy?
 
2005-05-11 09:13:23 PM
jazzmajora:

Not flaming, just asking a question: Why shiat on people who are being nice, especially if their nice-ness doesn't affect you, and the people offering help do it willingly? Seriously - just a question. Why introduce negativity into the thread?

There was a TF thread just yesterday about the tricks debt collectors will use, including calling up your neighbors to have them deliver "pay up" messages to you. And I know several people on Fark (myself included), who have cracked-out relatives that they do not want contact with, where the relatives go behind their backs to try to establish contact.

A few years ago I received a message from an unknown email addy that had a spam subject heading (selling flowers or something), with a regular email in the message body; it turned out to be one of my relatives using spam to email me, since I had her emails on ignore (she'd been on ignore by the rest of the family for a while before that).

I recently had a farker's parent contact me, from finding my email on their friends list; this parent was on /ignore by the rest of their family, too. The parent did not know anything about me except that I was listed as a friend, and wanted to talk to me, since the farker (who is alive, employed, healthy, not in any danger) won't talk to them anymore. The parent has a history of mental illness. That's why I've removed or masked some of the contact details in my various online profiles, BTW.

About 30 years ago my dad moved from Kentucky to the U.K., not least to get away from his overbearing mother, and for a year or so he didn't have a phone... his mother managed to sweet-talk an operator into finding a neighbor in Wales (a couple of miles from my dad's mailing address), whom he'd never met before, to trudge over and tell my dad that his mother wanted to hear from him. He was in his late 20s. She didn't have any emergency. She just was frustrated that he wasn't talking to her much.

I'm not a big blind-faith kinda guy, but this thread is an occasion where I do trust the admins to exercise good judgment about greenlighting, so I'm willing to assume it's safe. I don't think the guy who asked "how do we know it's legit" was trying to shiat on people for doing a good deed, though; his question was entirely reasonable.
 
2005-05-11 09:14:32 PM
Found a listing for a metal band playing in Ukiah fiday its not punk but with any luck they may be able to help get the word out for you URL has a contact name and number

http://www.cabands.com/bands_chars.asp?starting_with=DEFINITION%20UNKNOWN&base d=gbname

/ sorry no html skillz
 
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