(Some Guy) A new study says internet use is not linked to isolation. Submitter posted this from his mother's basement a few days shy of his 40th birthday
I'd say it's more an issue of isolated people having an attraction to the internet. It really makes it easy for those suffering from social anxiety disorders to get just the right amount of interaction and stimulation while remaining a sense of control over the situation.
archonwarp:I'd say it's more an issue of isolated people having an attraction to the internet. It really makes it easy for those suffering from social anxiety disorders to get just the right amount of interaction and stimulation while remaining a sense of control over the situation.
pretty much what I came here to say. maybe the internet will turn out to help people with social anxiety. or it could make it worse. who knows? probably depends on the individual.
Have to agree - can't say that the internet has caused me any real isolation. Because of the internet I was able to work at home for my last job and by the end of the day I was more than ready to get out in the real world and be around people.
It's great for news, games with my morning coffee and communicating w/my friends as to what we'll do out and about in person.
It is also a spectacular device for housework avoidance.
maxpower007:pretty much what I came here to say. maybe the internet will turn out to help people with social anxiety. or it could make it worse. who knows? probably depends on the individual.
People that can string together a semi-coherent fark rant are probably in the top 5% of the population, intelligence wise. Every time I go among people in real life, I'm floored by how farking stupid and shallow most of them are. Then I get to feeling stabby, and have to return to my hermitage.
Social anxiety? Hell yeah. I'm anxious I'm gonna snap and mutilate some poor lackwit.
archonwarp:I'd say it's more an issue of isolated people having an attraction to the internet. It really makes it easy for those suffering from social anxiety disorders to get just the right amount of interaction and stimulation while remaining a sense of control over the situation.
archonwarp:I'd say it's more an issue of isolated people having an attraction to the internet. It really makes it easy for those suffering from social anxiety disorders to get just the right amount of interaction and stimulation while remaining a sense of control over the situation.
FTA: The 2008 survey of 2,512 adults did find that Americans' core discussion networks -- that group of people you count on being able to confide in -- has gotten smaller in the past two decades. It's down, on average, to about two people instead of three. They've also become less diverse because they contain fewer friends and more family members.
If having less people to confide in isn't social isolation, then what the fark are you people studying?
Oh right, this is the kind of research where you don't "study" the data and simply apply whatever invalid definition you've staked your academic reputation on to survey methods and ride the gravy train of whatever media controversy your idiocy has stirred up.
I met my boyfriend online. He's awesome and I'd never have met him without the Internet since he lives thousands of miles away in a different country. I've made a lot of friends online in chat rooms and MMOs. The Internet is great for news, information and craziness. It does make it harder to deal with people in RL because they seem so stupid and small-minded. I mean, really, who doesn't know what a Cleveland Steamer is by now?
AmazingRuss:People that can string together a semi-coherent fark rant are probably in the top 5% of the population, intelligence wise. Every time I go among people in real life, I'm floored by how farking stupid and shallow most of them are. Then I get to feeling stabby, and have to return to my hermitage.
That sums it up. If you want to hear people going on and on about Glee, the Yankees, or so-and-so's trainwreck of a life, then you talk to people in meatspace. If you want to hear about politics, science, or something nerdy, then you go to the interwebs.
/if you want to lose faith in humanity, you play WoW
lantawa
2009-11-07 12:22:21 PM
make me some tea
2009-11-07 12:46:12 PM
archonwarp
2009-11-07 01:47:43 PM
Ponzholio
2009-11-07 01:48:55 PM
But was delayed because Cheetos dust slowed down teh internets?
dogette
2009-11-07 01:58:11 PM
/I suspect Fark is a still-living-with-mom internet hot spot
maxpower007
2009-11-07 02:01:19 PM
pretty much what I came here to say. maybe the internet will turn out to help people with social anxiety. or it could make it worse. who knows? probably depends on the individual.
pisceandreamer
2009-11-07 02:02:27 PM
It's great for news, games with my morning coffee and communicating w/my friends as to what we'll do out and about in person.
It is also a spectacular device for housework avoidance.
pinual
2009-11-07 02:06:14 PM
AmazingRuss
2009-11-07 02:13:32 PM
People that can string together a semi-coherent fark rant are probably in the top 5% of the population, intelligence wise. Every time I go among people in real life, I'm floored by how farking stupid and shallow most of them are. Then I get to feeling stabby, and have to return to my hermitage.
Social anxiety? Hell yeah. I'm anxious I'm gonna snap and mutilate some poor lackwit.
GranoblasticMan
2009-11-07 02:31:18 PM
Absolutely accurate, I would say.
Forbidden Doughnut
2009-11-07 03:10:20 PM
THIS. I've also networked and found employment using "the intertubes"
Cytokine Storm
2009-11-07 03:12:46 PM
/I love you internet
Mike_LowELL
2009-11-07 03:34:09 PM
Check me out everybody! I'm dancin'! I'm dancin'!
Con Fabulous
2009-11-07 03:36:15 PM
If having less people to confide in isn't social isolation, then what the fark are you people studying?
Oh right, this is the kind of research where you don't "study" the data and simply apply whatever invalid definition you've staked your academic reputation on to survey methods and ride the gravy train of whatever media controversy your idiocy has stirred up.
toejam
2009-11-07 03:38:19 PM
oflinkey
2009-11-07 03:57:16 PM
lake_huron
2009-11-07 04:43:59 PM
Have you considered living with her in real life, too?
Cytokine Storm: The internet will show me boobs on command doesn't care if I'm wearing pants.
That applies to my wife, too.
/No, she'll just show them to me. Not you.
//Probably.
///Met my wife online.
Con Fabulous
2009-11-07 04:50:36 PM
I'm not saying that the survey results are wrong.
fredbox
2009-11-07 06:35:21 PM
bravian
2009-11-07 06:48:34 PM
/obscure?
//met my boyfriend, most of my friends, and got my job from the tubes
jessicat
2009-11-07 07:10:43 PM
PappaSon
2009-11-07 07:11:11 PM
hits 40 on Tuesday....but not in basement (anymore)
Duck_of_Doom
2009-11-07 07:19:16 PM
That sums it up. If you want to hear people going on and on about Glee, the Yankees, or so-and-so's trainwreck of a life, then you talk to people in meatspace. If you want to hear about politics, science, or something nerdy, then you go to the interwebs.
/if you want to lose faith in humanity, you play WoW
jack21221
2009-11-07 07:46:35 PM
/obscure?
//met my boyfriend, most of my friends, and got my job from the tubes
Is that from The Big Bang Theory?
Man On Fire
2009-11-07 08:18:12 PM
hits 40 on Tuesday....but not in basement (anymore)
yep. us attic-dwellers are so superior.