The_Gallant_Gallstone: Ummon: I had a very hot GF 10 years younger than myself in under 2 weeks. and I'm not particularly attractive. the wife is still her own miserable self

Maybe you're rich... and not Fark-rich.

/quite Fark-wealthy myself

Yea money does indeed help

d-fens99: Here's a pic of Sandra Tsing Loh, as determined by the gooogles.



Make your own decisions about it, boyos.

Well... she's not fat, so perhaps her husband stopped touching her because she's a coont or because he's gay. Perhaps both. Or maybe he just grew some taste and has been cheating on the side for years.

In either case, as with all cheating threads, if you aren't a good enough person to avoid cheating on your spouse, you're not a good enough person for me to care about your existence.

Tommy Moo: bradkanus: On your death bed it's not the best sex you had that you remember - it's the people.

I'd rather enjoy all of my life than have one meaningful moment on my deathbed.

I don't need to get married. I love every minute of my life. I have lots of sex with multiple partners. Outside of my job, no one in the world can tell me where to be or what to do. I spend my weekends relaxing and partying instead of cleaning up poop and falling asleep at 9:30.

Want to get married? Knock yourself out. I don't envy you. Don't pity me for being a bachelor. I don't need it.


In the entire history of missing the point, few humans have managed to miss the point as much as you.

PascalsGhost: wh0mprat: PascalsGhost: wh0mprat: PJ_the_Barbarian: wh0mprat: Poohba: This is why it's much better to meet and date foreigners. Most women from Eastern Europe or Asia still have values such as loyalty, and wouldn't pull this kind of childish shiat.

And it's easier to exploit them economically.

But if enough people get into that business, demand will go up and they'll be able to command higher wages and better conditions, and the whole game's up.

/what? It works in sweatshops.

I'm always kind of appalled when I see a Dateline story on 'marriage tours' of Russia or East Graboslavia or wherever. Because those dudes are always fat. Without exception. And they go on about how American women are all biatchy princesses but that Graboslavian girls are all very sweet and loyal and love you for who you are. They arent' looking for wives, they're looking for daughters they can bone.

I look at them and think "Huh. Couldn't compete in the First World, so they're slumming in the minors".

You're just jealous you aren't banging a hot young Graboslavian wench.

I suffer from a rare form of elitism. I think of anybody whose great grandparents weren't born in this country as immigrants, and I couldn't shame my family by brining home one of 'those people'.

Whereas I'll happily fark a black druze gypsy and brag about it.

Takes all kinds.

Oh, I just wouldn't tell Mother :)

Soymilk: there their theyre: She sounds just like my mother and the exact same situation with my parents. If only they would divorce, they farking hate each other Why stay together anymore to put up with each others hatred and abuse? Oh yeah, because they hold a grudge against each other and it is never their fault, they will not admit that anything is they are ever wrong about anything and blame each other for every possible problem.

Oh good lord, I am sorry for you to have to live with that.

I have actually counseled an unhappy friend to divorce her husband. They despised each other, had not had sex for a decade, and constantly fought in front of the kids. I'm sure the "Marriage is a SACRED COMMITMENT OMG Think of the Children" crowd would hurl stones at me, but it's true. My friend and her equally miserable husband had gotten into an ongoing competition to see which one can torment the other more while remaining faithfully married. Thank God they got a divorce before one of them picked up a knife or a packet of poison.

Nope that sounds like a marriage to leave. Our outrage stems more from the BS and self serving attitude in the article here not the thought of divorce itself.

Mr Guy: You must be new here. I don't really understand why, but for a group of people who pride themselves on being assholes, snarky, counter culture, anti-religious establishment, rebellious, pro-freedom, pro-drugs, etc etc, Fark rips the unfaithful a NEW one. There is absolutely NO mercy here for those who contemplate marital infidelity.

With the libertarians, probably something to do with contract law... WHARGARBLE!

A self-absorbed public radio personality? Say it ain't so.

Of course, that pretty much applies to anybody in the media/entertainment industry.

I forced myself to read this entire article when it was in The Atlantic. Like most of you, I felt nauseus and disgusted by every word. The article didn't have comments enabled, so I feared that what this insensitive, mentally imbalanced woman was writing might possibly be considered normal.

This thread has restored my faith in humanity. Once again, Farkers come through.

Old, jaded people with that much financial and social comfort should never be allowed to complain. The author cheated, and is struggling desperately - pathetically - to rationalize it. And in the public sphere! I hate people that refuse to work to improve something, but complain about it anyway. They can suck my ballz.

/Playing the roles of husband and dad @ 23
//love it all
///even the work and the slashies

Oh I'd hit it. Glad I DNRTFA.

/I'm done wi'choo, yer money's on the dresser

Soymilk: BadMother: men's fennel club

Yea, am I the only one who wants to know what that is?

Maybe he joined it when she started the "Mother on Fire Tour" and thought she'd taste good basted in a good fennel oil.

Tommy Moo: bradkanus: On your death bed it's not the best sex you had that you remember - it's the people.

I'd rather enjoy all of my life than have one meaningful moment on my deathbed.

I don't need to get married. I love every minute of my life. I have lots of sex with multiple partners. Outside of my job, no one in the world can tell me where to be or what to do. I spend my weekends relaxing and partying instead of cleaning up poop and falling asleep at 9:30.

Want to get married? Knock yourself out. I don't envy you. Don't pity me for being a bachelor. I don't need it.


Ah... the bachelor who thinks being a bachelor will always be cool. At some point you'll be 40 hanging out with 24 year-old guys a Makos in Orlando... they'll make fun of you behind your back, you'll buy the drinks. I was you, but stopped when people started looking at me for the loser I was becoming.

You don't have to get married, but you do have stop being a bachelor at some point. Of course, this is fark and you don't have do anything you don't want to do as long your mother's basement is clean and you keep the music down.

/I wasn't saying everyone had to get married, I was just saying that banging two asian chicks in suite at Mandalay won't cross your mind on your death bed - your best friend, father, favorite dog, aunt etc.. will be what you think of.

Soymilk: I have actually counseled an unhappy friend to divorce her husband. They despised each other, had not had sex for a decade, and constantly fought in front of the kids. I'm sure the "Marriage is a SACRED COMMITMENT OMG Think of the Children" crowd would hurl stones at me, but it's true. My friend and her equally miserable husband had gotten into an ongoing competition to see which one can torment the other more while remaining faithfully married. Thank God they got a divorce before one of them picked up a knife or a packet of poison.

No, I agree that there are some marriages that should be ended. That's a lot different from cheating and then whining about how it's the fault of marriage that yours didn't work out.

And for one point that the author of this article is actually right about - it's not so much the dissolution of a bad marriage that is hard on the kids, it's often the recoupling of the parents with new partners. I know that in my case the divorce itself was okay as both my parents stayed very involved in my life. It was the idiot stepparents who caused all the discord and problems (both my parents married crazied people within a year of the divorce for their second marriages, and neither of them worked out well at all).

Ummon: The_Gallant_Gallstone: Ummon: I had a very hot GF 10 years younger than myself in under 2 weeks. and I'm not particularly attractive. the wife is still her own miserable self

Maybe you're rich... and not Fark-rich.

/quite Fark-wealthy myself

Yea money does indeed help

oh yea, and a sports car.

SherKhan: bradkanus:

On your death bed it's not the best sex you had that you remember - it's the people.

To capture the awesome
Of this pictoral snark
One needs Mike Haggar
Pile-driving a shark

Mr Guy: You must be new here. I don't really understand why, but for a group of people who pride themselves on being assholes, snarky, counter culture, anti-religious establishment, rebellious, pro-freedom, pro-drugs, etc etc, Fark rips the unfaithful a NEW one. There is absolutely NO mercy here for those who contemplate marital infidelity.

Don't overcomplicate it, all Fark needs is a victim.

Or best of all, after the breast-feeding and toddler years are through, let those nurturing superdads be the custodial parents! Let the Type A moms obsessively work, write checks, and forget to feed the dog. Let the dads then, if they wish, kick out those sloppy working mothers and run effective households, hiring the appropriate staff, if need be. To a certain extent, men today may have more clarity about what it takes to raise children in the modern age. They don't, for instance, have today's working mother's ambivalence and emotional stickiness.

Yes, because this country has become a masculine wasteland, amirite?

There are literally no career-oriented men left. Men have been completed domesticated, devoid of all feral tendencies. We just want to raise children and cook overly-complex French cuisine.

Conversely, the women of this nation want nothing more than to work 60 hours a week, procreate, briefly nurse, then abandon their children and return to the office.

She's really got our number, society. We should pay attention to this grand visionary.

St_Francis_P: throwing out attempts at flowery prose

wish she would have thrown them out

got through about two paragraphs

pnjunction: Holy crap.



Those guys are better off without those biatches.

I highly suspect 'Ian' is gay.

Even if he wasn't, I'd sure understand it if he is now.

mitEj: Ummon: At 41 my wife decided "she didn't want to be married anymore". She spent the next year acting like a 5 year old. Finally I said to hell with it and moved out.

I had a very hot GF 10 years younger than myself in under 2 weeks. and I'm not particularly attractive. the wife is still her own miserable self

Women do it to themselves and they wonder why they can't meet a good man

My fave was the one that left claiming I was holding her back and then did nothing.

I have been a great deal happier in my life since that relationship ended, (After the 8 months of crippling depression that is)

I wish her ex all the happiness in the world, and that her next boyfriend/husband does to her what she did to him.

Been there, done that. I'm a zillion times better off without my ex and she is a mess right now. I feel a bit bad for her, as we parted ways on good terms a decade ago. But I predicted the outcome nearly to perfection. (She was searching for her solemate, yadda yadda)

Enjoy the good life!

Sigdiamond200

"my God...what a f*cking c*nt"

Winner. Perfectly worded, eloquent prose, well researched, and backed by facts. You need to read no further.

bradkanus: Ah... the bachelor who thinks being a bachelor will always be cool. At some point you'll be 40

I'm a 40 year old bachelor, but then I was never cool.

bradkanus: ...I was just saying that banging two asian chicks in suite at Mandalay won't cross your mind on your death bed...

Yeah, and they probably weren't real chicks either...

Funny, by human nature she should have been really attracted to a guy just like her dad, explosive temper and all. Instead she settled on a safe artsy musician and then just let things fall apart.

My guess is the guy she banged is exactly like her dad too.

Oh well, the moral of the story was pretty much that each of those people got exactly who they deserve.

/Ian is trying to get his wife on the bike with him
//He also may be gay
///NTTAWWT

RhinoCat: If anybody on here is familiar with the band Boy Hits Car and their song Mister Loh, it is about this woman's dad.

well holy shiat. A connection I was not expecting to have made for me.

bradkanus: Tommy Moo: bradkanus: On your death bed it's not the best sex you had that you remember - it's the people.

I'd rather enjoy all of my life than have one meaningful moment on my deathbed.

I don't need to get married. I love every minute of my life. I have lots of sex with multiple partners. Outside of my job, no one in the world can tell me where to be or what to do. I spend my weekends relaxing and partying instead of cleaning up poop and falling asleep at 9:30.

Want to get married? Knock yourself out. I don't envy you. Don't pity me for being a bachelor. I don't need it.


Ah... the bachelor who thinks being a bachelor will always be cool. At some point you'll be 40 hanging out with 24 year-old guys a Makos in Orlando... they'll make fun of you behind your back, you'll buy the drinks. I was you, but stopped when people started looking at me for the loser I was becoming.

You don't have to get married, but you do have stop being a bachelor at some point. Of course, this is fark and you don't have do anything you don't want to do as long your mother's basement is clean and you keep the music down.

/I wasn't saying everyone had to get married, I was just saying that banging two asian chicks in suite at Mandalay won't cross your mind on your death bed - your best friend, father, favorite dog, aunt etc.. will be what you think of.

When I think about how much money I'll be able to spend on muscle cars, vacations and beer, rather than get married...damn.

bradkanus: You don't have to get married, but you do have stop being a bachelor at some point.

SherKhan: bradkanus:

On your death bed it's not the best sex you had that you remember - it's the people.

You're a favorite for a reason. I LOL'd at the office.

/someone should email the author a link to this thread.

mia fawkes: I've often said that 50% of acts of misogyny are perpetrated by my own gender (yes, female). Thanks for the proof, Subby.

/my Weeners ever! (long time lurker)
///slashies are as fun as they look!!!

And your first filter pwn, too.

/Congratulations
//And I agree with your post, too.

She "contributes" to NPR, and listening to her talk is even more annoying than reading her writing. So don't read it, here's the gist:

Neurotic, self-absorbed people often do reprehensible things like cheat on their spouses, then bore the fark out of everyone else explaining why they did it when everyone knows why people cheat: because they feel like it.

There, just saved some people a couple minutes.

BTW, I love all the "her husband will be banging cheerleaders" comments. Right. Unless he's Donald Trump rich, he'll be banging 30-somethings (maybe), not 20-somethings.


RE wh0mprat: "I'm always kind of appalled when I see a Dateline story on 'marriage tours' of Russia or East Graboslavia or wherever. Because those dudes are always fat. Without exception. And they go on about how American women are all biatchy princesses but that Graboslavian girls are all very sweet and loyal and love you for who you are. They arent' looking for wives, they're looking for daughters they can bone."

This.

Cat Food Sandwiches: The_Gallant_Gallstone: Old people are lame

Dude, that's why they use "walkers".

Oh, you!

Here I was, thinking that contributing anything to this thread would be akin to going, "Tell 'em, Steve-Dave!"

And then you come along and change everything.

I loled.

/Continue telling 'em, Steve-Dave!

Marriage has turned into nothing more for women to be sluts and then take all the marital assets and then have their ex-husbands give them 75% of their paychecks for the rest of their lives.

I know, it happened to me. I got divorced because my wife was sleeping around and I got penalized. You know, for the verbal abuse of me yelling at her for sleeping with everyone.

Thank Jeebus our new supreme court justice is pro-white male so we can finally fix this problem.

Ringtailed79: /someone should email the author a link to this thread.

Why, so she can see valid criticism mixed with a healthy dose of misogyny? That'll just inoculate her against the criticism. she can point to the rude posts and then disregard the whole thing.

lordaction: I know, it happened to me. I got divorced because my wife was sleeping around and I got penalized. You know, for the verbal abuse of me yelling at her for sleeping with everyone.

Don't marry whores!

paygun: Mr Guy: You must be new here. I don't really understand why, but for a group of people who pride themselves on being assholes, snarky, counter culture, anti-religious establishment, rebellious, pro-freedom, pro-drugs, etc etc, Fark rips the unfaithful a NEW one. There is absolutely NO mercy here for those who contemplate marital infidelity.

Don't overcomplicate it, all Fark needs is a victim.

I couldn't care less who she's sleeping with. It's that gawd-damned endless, icy prattle of hers that sets my teeth on edge. Ay yi yi.

Sweet Chaaaa-riii-ooo-ott!

Why is there such an obvious double standard when it comes to farking outside of marriage?

If a woman gets caught messing around with Juan The Swarthy Poolboy^TM they can fall back on excuses like, "He was never home", "I was lonely", "My husband drove me into the arms of another man"... while fervent watchers of Oprah's book club, SITC, and Lifetime television nod their heads approvingly in sympathy.

If a man gets caught with the 19 year old babysitter or office temp because his wife hadn't given him any since Clinton was in office, he is automatically judged to be nothing but a disgusting worm for whom burning at the stake, castration with a chainsaw, and impalement on a rusty fence post would not be enough punishment. So say we all.

So now we have this article, in which the author seeks to elicit some measure of sympathy for her her humping around by blaming everyone and everything but herself, as if she just accidently tripped and fell on the dick. What a selfish, self-absorbed coont. Hope her laptop keeps her warm, because when she is old and prune-like there won't be anything else that temperature near her crotch ever again.

Good for the goose and all that, I says...

Sorry lady, but you seem like a self absorbed douchebag, and cared more about yourself than you husband who had to travel all over the place to work, while you farked all his friends. Now you cant even dredge up the energy to give your marriage a second chance, even though your husband was willing.

/go be a lesbian or a whore, whichever you choose. Either way, go away and STFU.

lordaction: Thank Jeebus our new supreme court justice is pro-white male so we can finally fix this problem.

As a wise Latina woman, I got a kick out of your troll!

I do not care for her as a human.

rewind2846: Lifetime television

Tonight, don't miss A Man Hurt Me Because Men Are Bad. Only on Lifetime.

lordaction
I know, it happened to me. I got divorced because my wife was sleeping around and I got penalized.

She got penile-ized and you got penalized.

PJ_the_Barbarian: Ringtailed79: /someone should email the author a link to this thread.

Why, so she can see valid criticism mixed with a healthy dose of misogyny? That'll just inoculate her against the criticism. she can point to the rude posts and then disregard the whole thing.

It embiggens us to think that anybody cares about the wharrgarble we write here. ooooh, that biatch'll learn a lesson from us. grrr.

So her husband works his ass off so this harpie can sit on her ass and be a "writer" only to turn around and sleep with another man.

And it is his fault.

And now I bet he gets to pay to keep her in the "life she knows" or better yet "child support" funneled to whatever self absorbed BS she feels like trying.

Ain't life grand.

PascalsGhost: In the entire history of missing the point, few humans have managed to miss the point as much as you.

This is ridiculous. The point is that marriage is obsolete. I addressed it perfectly. It is. I don't need to marry someone to get laid, ergo, it's farking obsolete.

Go read comic books. You fail at this.

bradkanus: I was just saying that banging two asian chicks in suite at Mandalay won't cross your mind on your death bed

Unless you happen to die of a heart attack in that suite at Mandalay while banging the two asian chicks. Which would probably get you a hero tag attached to the article about your untimely but glorious demise.

SherKhan: bradkanus:

On your death bed it's not the best sex you had that you remember - it's the people.

I haven't had a good laugh like that in a while. Thanks.

Tommy Moo: I don't need to marry someone to get laid, ergo, it's farking obsolete.

if you're a walking, talking penis then I'll accept the idea that getting laid is the entirety of life's experiences.

nopokerface: rewind2846: Lifetime television

Tonight, don't miss A Man Hurt Me Because Men Are Bad. Only on Lifetime.

Empowered Man Murders Controlling Wife In Lifetime For Men Original Movie (new window)

whining twat

that's what I took away from this story