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clancifer [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 11:24:32 AM  
If what they allege is true, then the parents owe much more than that fine.

 
T-Luv 2008-12-14 02:11:24 PM  
Is that the going rate?

 
thenateman 2008-12-14 02:12:19 PM  
South Korean court.

 
thatguyfred 2008-12-14 02:16:24 PM  
I'd like to see this happen in America. Children are the end result of their parents influence.

 
Zulgaines 2008-12-14 02:18:52 PM  
Parents were probably too busy playing MMO to teach him right from wrong.

/wong

 
Royale With Cheese 2008-12-14 02:19:45 PM  
If they came to America, would he also be an immigrant son?

 
Pegasus_CAG 2008-12-14 02:21:10 PM  
If they came to America, would he also be an immigrant son?

If the moved to Kansas would he be a wayward son?

 
No Such Agency 2008-12-14 02:21:34 PM  
thatguyfred:
I'd like to see this happen in America. Children are the end result of their parents influence.

Some evil, evil people came from pretty decent families. Some pedophiles were molested as kids, ultimately influencing their own crimes, in a situation that their parents carry no blame for. How does financially ruining a family that's already dealing with having s psycho under their roof help anyone?

If there's a strong link, eg the father repeatedly shows porn to his son and tells him women are worthless, and the son grows up to be a rapist, then maybe a case could be made. But what if these parents were already doing their best to raise their son well, and he still raped a 7-year-old?

 
TexasPete [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:22:14 PM  
people give rappers such a bad name.

 
ParliamentFunkadelic 2008-12-14 02:22:34 PM  
So if the parents have to pay $165,000... do they at least get a go at the girl? ... i mean... yea

 
heater 2008-12-14 02:24:02 PM  
Too Yung?

 
hubcity 2008-12-14 02:26:04 PM  
So what if they've raised a therapist son.

/what?

 
shanrick [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:27:30 PM  
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I'll take the rapists for $600

 
GoSurfing [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:28:17 PM  
Pegasus_CAG: If they came to America, would he also be an immigrant son?

If the moved to Kansas would he be a wayward son?


You know there could have been some obvious clues to this behavior.

Was he sitting on a park bench, eyeing little girls with bad intent?

 
fpage77 2008-12-14 02:29:06 PM  
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GoSurfing [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:30:08 PM  
Royale With Cheese

And if his father was a senator in the US, and he had been qualified of serving the draft for Vietnam, but his father got him out of the draft would he be a fortunate son?

 
Donnchadha [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:30:29 PM  
FTA: A court statement said: "The parents could have prevented the crime with appropriate education but failed to show enough attention to their child.

"They neglected their duty to raise their child so that he can properly adjust to society."


What is this blasphemy? I'm glad I live in the west, where parents don't have to have any sort of involvement in raising their children. As long as we worship the almighty fetus, there's no expectation of responsibility post-birth.

 
sn68f [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:32:47 PM  
so, they showed him porn of men raping little girls?

 
craxyd [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:34:00 PM  
I'm kinda shaky on hammering the parents, the scrub was an adult and made his choice.
- 10 years in prison? I like this idea:
- If a juvenile be under the age of 12, upon conviction, the rapist shall be put to death. One appeal shall be permitted.
- Ages 13-18, mandatory minimum 25 years in PMITA prison... NO early release or parole. One appeal shall be permitted.
- After release in 25 years, they are given a surgically implanted GPS for the rest of their life.
- If the offender commits a second offense, upon convction, the sentence shall be death. One appeal shall be permitted.
- No matter the juvenile's age, if the adult rapist kills them, upon conviction, the punishment shall be death. NO appeal shall be permitted
++ To those of you that may want to howl about "due process", I'm tired of hearing about little girls having been taken from their homes, raped and buried alive in a trash bag. Give them a fair trial and protect society by getting rid the predators. Here's a serious situation where we DO need to think of the children.

 
CruJones 2008-12-14 02:36:05 PM  
Pegasus_CAG: If they came to America, would he also be an immigrant son?

If the moved to Kansas would he be a wayward son?


If they moved to Clearwater, would that be a fortunate son?

/stretching

 
Egalitarian [recently expired TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:41:44 PM  
Korean huh? I'm not surprised. I know from personal experience that some Korean dudes are seriously messed up when it comes to sex. We're talking Jekyll & Hyde personality swings.

\Korean dudes are hawt but it's not worth the weirdness

 
Man Going His Own Way 2008-12-14 02:42:39 PM  
This won't work in the United States. The State and Federal governments have already gutted and taken over father's roles in the family. Damned if fathers do, damned if fathers don't. Mothers, oas always, will get the automatic Pussy Pass. Too may syngle 'moms' will think of the children while rememberring daddy every payday.

 
Spoonerific 2008-12-14 02:45:59 PM  
sn68f: so, they showed him porn of men raping little girls?

That's what I'm saying! How did he "imitate" the porn he saw by raping a 7 year old?

If I imitated the porn I watch then I'd go out and get a poor college student and pay her money for consensual sex on camera. None of this raping children stuff.

The 17 yo does have ADHD, maybe he wasn't paying close enough attention to the porno?

 
xjennxiferx 2008-12-14 02:46:14 PM  
If this kid were in America, the jury would have taken 15 seconds to decide fark you 'kid', you'sa gonna get raped in prison.

And I'm having this rare moment of being proud of my country. Holding the parents liable is ridiculous.

 
nightfire 2008-12-14 02:50:01 PM  
And another tragic loss for personal responsibility. :(

 
walnuts55 [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 02:55:24 PM  
This is why Waterheads should be turned into dog food.

 
Jamrock 2008-12-14 02:56:57 PM  
RTFA if you haven't. Not to be racist, and I would love some insight here, but it seems a lot of people in Asian countries do NOT raise their children to be able to 'adjust to society.' Especially in Korea and Japan; those societies are so full of weirdos they have completely redefined 'society' there. Japanese women are remaining celebate for life, and men are marrying real dolls of anime characters. There seems to be a vast number of Koreans that are incredibly maladjusted. This guy, Cho Seung-hui, the died-playing-a-MMO guy. These societies are seriously at a risk of breaking down. What's the deal?

 
Loki-L 2008-12-14 02:58:39 PM  
craxyd: I'm kinda shaky on hammering the parents, the scrub was an adult and made his choice.
- 10 years in prison? I like this idea:
- If a juvenile be under the age of 12, upon conviction, the rapist shall be put to death. One appeal shall be permitted.
- Ages 13-18, mandatory minimum 25 years in PMITA prison... NO early release or parole. One appeal shall be permitted.
- After release in 25 years, they are given a surgically implanted GPS for the rest of their life.
- If the offender commits a second offense, upon convction, the sentence shall be death. One appeal shall be permitted.
- No matter the juvenile's age, if the adult rapist kills them, upon conviction, the punishment shall be death. NO appeal shall be permitted
++ To those of you that may want to howl about "due process", I'm tired of hearing about little girls having been taken from their homes, raped and buried alive in a trash bag. Give them a fair trial and protect society by getting rid the predators. Here's a serious situation where we DO need to think of the children.


What you say sounds nice if you look at the situation emotionally, but not if you look at it logically. This stuff might make you feel better about yourself but it won't actually do any good.

- Increasing the punishment for sexual offenders won't have as much of a deterring affect as it would have on crimes like fraud, because rapist genrally don't clamly analyse the risk and rewards of their actions.

- Giving a mandatory death penalty for anything short of murder means that there is little reason for them not to kill their victims as killing them won't make things worse for them.

- Appeals and due process exist for a reason. They are supposed to prevent us from punishing the wrong people. Considering how much uncertinity there can be in those cases and how high the penalties that you propose are it would be a good idea that you are extremly sure you got the right person before you pull the switch. It just might be your life that is on the line some day.

- Any measures such as tracking barcklest and sex offender registries aimed at preventing repeat offenses are misaimed if they are not accompanied by some sort of therapy. Just putting them in prison for a few years won't somehow 'cure' them.

-Your concern about the evil strangers preying on our children are fine but unfortunately woefully misplaced. These cases do exist and they get a lot of media exposure when they are discovered, but the sad truth is that chidren are generally far more at risk of being abused from their own relatives, close friends of the family or trusted authority figures than from total strangers. Also far more children are killed by drunk drivers than by sexual predators each year.

There are no easy solutions just ones that sound easy and help you feel better about yourself. You might derive comfort from seeing the world in black and white but that doesn't really help anyone least of all the children.

 
Nemo's Brother 2008-12-14 03:02:16 PM  
If only this child had been a Kennedy. Nothing would have come of this.

 
Fano 2008-12-14 03:18:39 PM  
Pegasus_CAG: If they came to America, would he also be an immigrant son?

If the moved to Kansas would he be a wayward son?


well done.

 
Fano 2008-12-14 03:21:06 PM  
Well if they had kept him locked up under the stairs this never would have happened.

 
weph 2008-12-14 03:26:42 PM  
South Korea has Seoul

 
moof 2008-12-14 03:31:30 PM  
Loki-L

Don't dignify that post with a followup, he's obviously just masturbating furiously over his discipline and punishment fantasies. Posting replies will only encourage him. At this point it's all role playing.

 
nomdeplume713 2008-12-14 03:35:37 PM  
Parents should only be liable if they had knowledge of the son raping and did not act upon that knowledge.

If they had no clue he was raping then they have no liability.
Simple as that Amen

 
Fano 2008-12-14 03:35:53 PM  
Ma Fratelli has the solution:

i45.photobucket.com

 
Fano 2008-12-14 03:40:21 PM  
nomdeplume713: Parents should only be liable if they had knowledge of the son raping and did not act upon that knowledge.

If they had no clue he was raping then they have no liability.
Simple as that Amen


To be fair, when your son looks like this, you might be frightened to do anything:
www.shoelace.org

 
spickus 2008-12-14 03:40:53 PM  
Pegasus_CAG: If they came to America, would he also be an immigrant son?

If the moved to Kansas would he be a wayward son?


When he wakes in the morning, is he a rising son?

 
culebra 2008-12-14 03:43:02 PM  
Kid just needs some therapy.
resources.bplondon.org

 
mom_dropped_me 2008-12-14 03:49:35 PM  
thatguyfred: I'd like to see this happen in America. Children are the end result of their parents influence.

Good lord, if that were true, half the parents in the city of Baltimore would be facing fines or in jail. I like the idea.

 
Fano 2008-12-14 04:01:18 PM  
"Milhouse! What happened to my building? You were supposed to be watching!"
"I was watching, Bart. First it leaned over, then it fell down."

I'm just suggesting that their supervision might not have been very good even if they were doing it.

 
okami36 2008-12-14 04:26:33 PM  
GoSurfing: Pegasus_CAG: If they came to America, would he also be an immigrant son?

If the moved to Kansas would he be a wayward son?

You know there could have been some obvious clues to this behavior.

Was he sitting on a park bench, eyeing little girls with bad intent?


Could be, but I'm pretty sure he knows the taste of broken luck.

 
Mouser 2008-12-14 04:58:18 PM  
sn68f: so, they showed him porn of men raping little girls?

I'm guessing the kid was into lolicon hentai. There's places on the Internet if you want more information on the subject, but I'm not taking a seat over there just to tell you where they are.

 
RealAmericanHero [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 05:07:27 PM  
craxyd: I'm kinda shaky on hammering the parents, the scrub was an adult and made his choice.
- 10 years in prison? I like this idea:
- If a juvenile be under the age of 12, upon conviction, the rapist shall be put to death. One appeal shall be permitted.
- Ages 13-18, mandatory minimum 25 years in PMITA prison... NO early release or parole. One appeal shall be permitted.
- After release in 25 years, they are given a surgically implanted GPS for the rest of their life.
- If the offender commits a second offense, upon convction, the sentence shall be death. One appeal shall be permitted.
- No matter the juvenile's age, if the adult rapist kills them, upon conviction, the punishment shall be death. NO appeal shall be permitted
++ To those of you that may want to howl about "due process", I'm tired of hearing about little girls having been taken from their homes, raped and buried alive in a trash bag. Give them a fair trial and protect society by getting rid the predators. Here's a serious situation where we DO need to think of the children.


Congratulations, you just eliminated any question a rapist would have as to whether or not they should kill their victim to make sure they can't talk.

/your plan
//i don't think you thought it through

 
ssrat 2008-12-14 05:19:49 PM  
I need more info than this to decide.
Watching porn no problem, the question is how often did they talk to him about reality/fantasy.

Did they give him even the general education about interaction with the opposite gender?

If not then I can see why they lost, if they taught everything except don't force anyone to do anything then that would just be a innocent slip.

How bad off is he, I might just be that they still see him as maybe no more than a permanent 10y old

 
Je5tEr 2008-12-14 05:43:19 PM  
mom_dropped_me: thatguyfred: I'd like to see this happen in America. Children are the end result of their parents influence.

Good lord, if that were true, half the parents in the city of Baltimore would be facing fines or in jail. I like the idea.


Half is being generous.

 
craxyd [TotalFark] 2008-12-14 06:14:00 PM  
Loki-L, moof, RealAmericanHero

I'll confess to being hot-headed over this issue. I can't stand people that hurt kids that way. How would you three propose dealing with the vermin? Outside of gazillions of dollars of "rehabilitation".

 
captjc 2008-12-14 06:39:02 PM  
CruJones: Pegasus_CAG: If they came to America, would he also be an immigrant son?

If the moved to Kansas would he be a wayward son?

If they moved to Clearwater, would that be a fortunate son?

/stretching


I can play this game.

If they moved to Daytona, would he be a son of a beach?

 
milkyshirt 2008-12-14 07:03:35 PM  
Malbar: thatguyfred: I'd like to see this happen in America. Children are the end result of their parents influence.

This is retarded. No amount of good parenting is going to keep a child with psychological issues from acting like a child with psychological issues.

Most of our character traits and aspects of our personalities are determined by genetics before we even leave the womb. Parents have become the new scapegoat for idiots who need something or someone to blame whenever something bad happens.


I can't fully agree with the second half of this post, but a lot of people seem to be forgetting the huge influence of genetics when it comes to severe personality defects. It shouldn't be an excuse for parents to neglect to raise their children properly, but it's simply not true that parents can be expected to effectively alter the way their child is wired. Don't get me wrong, I think it's unfortunate, and as a parent it scares the hell out of me that something could turn out wrong with my children and I won't necessarily be able to help them with it. This particular article doesn't provide enough details about the case for anyone to make a judgement for or against these parents just by reading it. You can't assume there were any indications that would lead them to think their kid would do this, either.

 
metal_gear 2008-12-14 09:54:11 PM  
... they're gonna blame this on Grand Theft Auto too, aren't they?

 
Elliott1787 2008-12-15 03:17:23 AM  
craxyd:
++ To those of you that may want to howl about "due process", I'm tired of hearing about little girls having been taken from their homes, raped and buried alive in a trash bag.


Stop watching or reading the news, then you won't hear about it.

If this only happened once a year, because despite the consequences you list it is still going to happen, you would still hear about it for months. There are so many more horrible things that happen and are more of a real danger to children than rape and murder, but the media likes rape and murder, they will report on it until they have talked to every single insignificant person they can find who has the slightest connection to the people involved.

 
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