When reached by phone Thursday afternoon, Ramson said that both men no longer lived there and she wasn't going to worry about it. But she said she couldn't talk because she had company over, and she asked a reporter to call her later.

I'm SHOCKED!!!

So, did the two men know she was farking both of them? If so, then both the guys are asshats. If not, she needs to have her legs sewn together.

/open relationships are ok if all agree to it

I'll take "Unstable Social Groups" for $1000, Alex.

Nothing could possib lye go wrong. I mean, possibly go wrong.

/first thing that has gone wrong

Been there, been part of that. DIdn't get in any fights.

Seen it done from a safe distance. It helps when the husband's a happy-go-lucky guy who's genuinely glad to be rid of the psychotic heifer in question.

All of a sudden my love life looks all shiny and new.

Rule: one penis per fantasy.

/irrevocable

I never would have imagined that somebody would get all stabby.

the husband cheating on her with her boyfriend would have been better.

I bet this woman is absolutely, 100% disgusting looking. I would actually bet everything I own.

Apparently the guys would hit it. And each other.

tonesskin: I bet this woman is absolutely, 100% disgusting looking. I would actually bet everything I own.

I am not taking that one.

So... what booth do they run at the Ren Faire?

/polyamory, when nerds finally accept that a time-share pussy is the best they can hope for

technicolor-misfit: So... what booth do they run at the Ren Faire?

/polyamory, when nerds finally accept that a time-share pussy is the best they can hope for

Oh friend, anyone can get a whore be they nerd or not. Also the nerds vs. Sex thing only applies to high school kids. Once you're 25 and have a great job it isnt the case. Without going into vulgar detail please TRUST me on this.

That guy was just mad because the husband took the cigarettes and the last beer in there with him.

She could not be reached later.

That's my favorite part of the story. She talked to the reporter while she had "company over" but you gotta figure if she could not be reached later, she must have been really damn busy.

I'm a 'part-time live-in' girlfriend so, my girlfriend and I are getting a kick out of this...and so is her husband.

I wonder if she has a height requirement in order to ride?

EverythingElseWasTaken: I'm a 'part-time live-in' girlfriend so, my girlfriend and I are getting a kick out of this...and so is her husband.

I am intrigued by your ideas and would like to subscribe to your newsletter.

When reached by phone Thursday afternoon, Ramson said that both men no longer lived there and she wasn't going to worry about it. But she said she couldn't talk because she had company over, and she asked a reporter to call her later.

Company? Hmmmm....

She could not be reached later.

Obviously, she was still "busy" with that reporter.

EverythingElseWasTaken: I'm a 'part-time live-in' girlfriend so, my girlfriend and I are getting a kick out of this...and so is her husband.

I hate to say it, but...

How YOU doin?

/shamelessly trotting out tired memes

I'm pretty much in that situation now, sans the homicidal maniacs portion of the program. It's been like this for 8 months. Everyone knows, everyone's cool. Apparently, someone didn't know, or there's more to the story than they're letting on here.

How to screw up a good thing.

tonesskin: I bet this woman is absolutely, 100% disgusting looking. I would actually bet everything I own.

Also not taking the bet.

Anyone else catch that she's 35, while husband is 25 and BF is 21? Guess she likes 'em young...

"Triads are as interesting as hell -- while they last. But so is a chimney fire..."
-Spider Robinson

I really don't get these open relationship things. I really don't. Good for you if you can make it work, I guess.

technicolor-misfit:
/polyamory, when nerds finally accept that a time-share pussy is the best they can hope for

"Polyamory: Oh thank god, (s)he's gone to annoy someone else for a while."

unicron702: Also the nerds vs. Sex thing only applies to high school kids. Once you're 25 and have a great job it isnt the case.

You were in high school until you were 25?

My wifes girlfriend used to stay over on weekends, but I never got jealous!!

Oh those Key West summer nights.......


B2

Thanks Bill Wick's Friend. That's exactly what I came in here for.

technicolor-misfit: So... what booth do they run at the Ren Faire?

/polyamory, when nerds finally accept that a time-share pussy is the best they can hope for

You know, as time-share cock, I'm really getting a kick out of these comments...

So she was having sex with the husband while the live-in boyfriend was in the livingroom.

That's cold.

Like an Eskimo's ass cold.

Wow...Just wow...

My boyfriend leaves me smokin' everytime. I can't imagine having anything left over for another man. This polyamory stuff is something I can't even wrap my mind around.

tonesskin: I bet this woman is absolutely, 100% disgusting looking. I would actually bet everything I own.

Yeah, Jerry Springer proved that years ago.

NewportBarGuy: When reached by phone Thursday afternoon, Ramson said that both men no longer lived there and she wasn't going to worry about it. But she said she couldn't talk because she had company over, and she asked a reporter to call her later.

I'm SHOCKED!!!

Haha first thing I noticed. I had copied the same passage to paste in here and say that this biatch is a slut. Whatever joke I was going to make went out of my head when I saw your comment.

technicolor-misfit: So... what booth do they run at the Ren Faire?

/polyamory, when nerds finally accept that a time-share pussy is the best they can hope for

I have to admit that this made me chuckle. Mostly because of the words "time-share pussy."

Tilda Swinton unavailable for comment?

OMG, it's titillating because they were a threesome!

/nothing to see here, move along

I guess you can't have your cock and eat his too!

So much for my midlife crisis plans.

puskunk: OMG, it's titillating

No Such Agency: technicolor-misfit:
/polyamory, when nerds finally accept that a time-share pussy is the best they can hope for

"Polyamory: Oh thank god, (s)he's gone to annoy someone else for a while."

This.

DRTFA, buuut the people who used to live in my dad's house had this arrangement. the husband lived with his wife and had his girlfriend as a "renter." to my knowledge, this went on for at least a decade before the wife wised up and realized what was going on.

we found this all out because the town has all of 100 people in it, and everyone knew. how the wife didn't is amazing. but she is a drunk...

Brockway: Well, if her husband is a female, then something has already gone wrong.

/dnrtfa
/wnrtfa

FTFA: The husband, Tracy Lee, 25...

S/He does have a girl's name.

Futurama_Girl: My boyfriend leaves me smokin' everytime. I can't imagine having anything left over for another man. This polyamory stuff is something I can't even wrap my mind around.

As far as I can tell, open and poly people seem to generally have an attitude to sex and relationships that basically, well, doesn't treat sex as a big deal in itself - all the while treating relationships with a strong sense of responsibility.

It made no sense to me when I was younger either, but now I'm almost sort of of the opposite mind - I no longer quite get how people can lock themselves into a strictly monogamous mindset. Not just in terms of actually being in that one relationship forever, but even just the plain logistics and routine of it. How do you not get acutely bored and frustrated after a few years to the point where it just falls apart?

I find strict monogamy to be something akin to elementary school age children's mindsets of "you are my best friend". Nobody else can be a close friend because the person who is your "best friend" is so possessive of the title that any close friendship with someone else would just cause an emotional clusterfark with your "best friend". I don't know if that makes sense, but that's basically how strict monogamists come across to me sometimes - like their mindset is some kind of neurotic dependency on one single other person that cuts off all others unnecessarily - even if deep down most people realise that different people can and do fulfill various needs for us without the need to artificially limit oneself to a single partner for life.

Ummm, I don't know. I'm probably the wrong person to even have an opinion on this, since I'm in an open-ended break from relationships altogether at the moment. But in a way I feel like that's given me an insight into the whole thing. Seeing the forest despite the trees is easier when you're outside it - that kind of thing.

Not sure I'd ever actively go for an open or poly lifestyle. But I definitely get it. It makes sense to me. Probably more than a religiously strict monogamous mindset makes sense to me.

Prediction: same time next year, these two will be in the same prison, in the same relationship, but Big Bruno wil not tolerate sheinnigans.

Melgania: Not sure I'd ever actively go for an open or poly lifestyle. But I definitely get it. It makes sense to me. Probably more than a religiously strict monogamous mindset makes sense to me.

That's kind of where I fall - it makes sense to me, but I doubt I'd ever do it. I did very seriously sit down with my husband and asked if he wanted to have an open marriage to ensure we can both meet all our needs (as we both have desires that are beyond the realm of the other). He didn't want to. I'm still trying to figure out why, since he never did actually give me an answer when I asked him.

/Doesn't bug me that he didn't want to.
//Wouldn't have bothered me if he did.

Futurama_Girl: My boyfriend leaves me smokin' everytime. I can't imagine having anything left over for another man. This polyamory stuff is something I can't even wrap my mind around.

No need. Just wrap your legs around it.

jonr: EverythingElseWasTaken: I'm a 'part-time live-in' girlfriend so, my girlfriend and I are getting a kick out of this...and so is her husband.

I am intrigued by your ideas and would like to subscribe to your newsletter.

no, no you dont. click on her myspace pic.